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		<title>By: Ginger Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-15139</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginger Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:28:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Larry- good to see you on the outside.  Glad you can be trained!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Larry- good to see you on the outside.  Glad you can be trained!</p>
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		<title>By: Larry Bettag</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-15128</link>
		<dc:creator>Larry Bettag</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 16:03:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great stuff.....I like seeing you in multiple spots.  You can post on AR and have it pour over to the outside blogs as well.  Needless to say, you have forced me to open my eyes a bit to life oustside of AR.  I think that I&#039;m a one trick pony....maybe you can teach me a 2nd trick.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great stuff&#8230;..I like seeing you in multiple spots.  You can post on AR and have it pour over to the outside blogs as well.  Needless to say, you have forced me to open my eyes a bit to life oustside of AR.  I think that I&#8217;m a one trick pony&#8230;.maybe you can teach me a 2nd trick.</p>
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		<title>By: Ginger Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-15115</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginger Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 14:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Matt- 100% agreed.

Glenn- not only deliver something our readers would like to know about, but also something we want to talk about. If it is boring to you, it will be boring to someone else too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Matt- 100% agreed.</p>
<p>Glenn- not only deliver something our readers would like to know about, but also something we want to talk about. If it is boring to you, it will be boring to someone else too.</p>
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		<title>By: Glenn fm Naples</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14971</link>
		<dc:creator>Glenn fm Naples</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ginger - there are many to distinguish ourselves from the other sea of faces. Basic - deliver information via our blog that is something our readers would like to know about - maybe more local or sharing our positive experiences within our community?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ginger &#8211; there are many to distinguish ourselves from the other sea of faces. Basic &#8211; deliver information via our blog that is something our readers would like to know about &#8211; maybe more local or sharing our positive experiences within our community?</p>
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		<title>By: Matt Stigliano</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14906</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt Stigliano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 00:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ginger - I agree.  I wouldn&#039;t write ONLY personal stuff, I think that would put people off.  But I do think that your personality should show.  That doesn&#039;t require writing about your cats (as suggested), but it should show with your writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ginger &#8211; I agree.  I wouldn&#8217;t write ONLY personal stuff, I think that would put people off.  But I do think that your personality should show.  That doesn&#8217;t require writing about your cats (as suggested), but it should show with your writing.</p>
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		<title>By: Ginger Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14873</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginger Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 22:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Glenn- Not just humanize, but distinguish ourselves from the sea of faces just like ours.

Sarah- same here.  Hard to imagine you would agree to room with someone when you have never met them face to face- the power of online relationships!

Norm- very eloquent.  I love that - &quot;what you need is a passionate minority&quot;.  EXACTLY.

Missy- Good point- it is about a &quot;real&quot; connection, not just reading a blog here and there!


Matt S. - a little balance is key.  If it is all personal than we are taking the opportunity to show how qualified we are in our professions.  I believe you have to do both simultaneously!

Bob- We each have our different styles and our different target market. I also don&#039;t talk about animals, because I don&#039;t have any, but I do talk about my kids (on a high level), and I find many of my readers and clients feel connected too me for that because I understand what kinds of decisions they are making.  

Nick- That was all FAKE?  You should be an actor!  I think I still asked you what exactly you did, but when I asked, I really cared!

Sellius- Agreed.  I think we attract like kind and opposites too!  The point is that the online relationship can be the starting point for which &quot;real&quot; relationships develop, where they might not otherwise have begun because we demonstrated online who we really are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glenn- Not just humanize, but distinguish ourselves from the sea of faces just like ours.</p>
<p>Sarah- same here.  Hard to imagine you would agree to room with someone when you have never met them face to face- the power of online relationships!</p>
<p>Norm- very eloquent.  I love that &#8211; &#8220;what you need is a passionate minority&#8221;.  EXACTLY.</p>
<p>Missy- Good point- it is about a &#8220;real&#8221; connection, not just reading a blog here and there!</p>
<p>Matt S. &#8211; a little balance is key.  If it is all personal than we are taking the opportunity to show how qualified we are in our professions.  I believe you have to do both simultaneously!</p>
<p>Bob- We each have our different styles and our different target market. I also don&#8217;t talk about animals, because I don&#8217;t have any, but I do talk about my kids (on a high level), and I find many of my readers and clients feel connected too me for that because I understand what kinds of decisions they are making.  </p>
<p>Nick- That was all FAKE?  You should be an actor!  I think I still asked you what exactly you did, but when I asked, I really cared!</p>
<p>Sellius- Agreed.  I think we attract like kind and opposites too!  The point is that the online relationship can be the starting point for which &#8220;real&#8221; relationships develop, where they might not otherwise have begun because we demonstrated online who we really are.</p>
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		<title>By: Ginger Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14869</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginger Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 21:49:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Paula- I love the crazy terms people find me for. If people want to call me because they want a good margarita in my town, so be it.  I will join them for one!

Benn- I was the one applauding from the back of the room when you said you love cats.

Rich- Who has time to create a fake online presence.  Get real people!

Todd- Yes, it was planned.  Epic!

Larry- WOW, those are some thought provoking questions.  By all means, do I share everything in my life, I don&#039;t think that is neccessary.  But, for me personally, I want to attract like minded people.  The best way to accomplish that is by being real.

And if you don&#039;t have a cat or a llama, you probably don&#039;t really care if your clients do!  You might be quite successful in the I hate llama group.  :o )

Nick- Thank you. I knew I liked you from you first comments to me, and you cemented that in &quot;real&quot; life.

Jay- I agree, experts can say whatever they want, when money talks, I listen.  You are exactly what I expected, and I love that I felt like I already knew you when I met you.  P.S.  How can we make sure you get a pair of those shoes!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paula- I love the crazy terms people find me for. If people want to call me because they want a good margarita in my town, so be it.  I will join them for one!</p>
<p>Benn- I was the one applauding from the back of the room when you said you love cats.</p>
<p>Rich- Who has time to create a fake online presence.  Get real people!</p>
<p>Todd- Yes, it was planned.  Epic!</p>
<p>Larry- WOW, those are some thought provoking questions.  By all means, do I share everything in my life, I don&#8217;t think that is neccessary.  But, for me personally, I want to attract like minded people.  The best way to accomplish that is by being real.</p>
<p>And if you don&#8217;t have a cat or a llama, you probably don&#8217;t really care if your clients do!  You might be quite successful in the I hate llama group.  <img src='http://agbeat.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p>Nick- Thank you. I knew I liked you from you first comments to me, and you cemented that in &#8220;real&#8221; life.</p>
<p>Jay- I agree, experts can say whatever they want, when money talks, I listen.  You are exactly what I expected, and I love that I felt like I already knew you when I met you.  P.S.  How can we make sure you get a pair of those shoes!!</p>
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		<title>By: Ginger Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14866</link>
		<dc:creator>Ginger Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 21:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather- Being online sort of evens out the playing field so to speak- you talk to people you might otherwise be fearful to talk about.  You are as real as it gets!

Vicki- Maybe not TOO much like us, however!

Kay- I think people have who written professionally have a much harder time- we were taught not to editorialize.  I would have a tough time going back again to professional writing!

Jonathan- poor Brady Coy.  He was sitting next to me during the cat discussion as I was getting agitated.

Kim-  Aren&#039;t I much better than flat Ginger?

Bill- I enjoyed meeting you too.  I love being let out of the computer!

Matt- You nailed it- the personality is the differentiator because   there are thousands of other agents who offer the same basic service.  It is all about who we are, not what we are.

Jeff- I agree, some of the talking heads were really good, but the substance came outside the conference.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather- Being online sort of evens out the playing field so to speak- you talk to people you might otherwise be fearful to talk about.  You are as real as it gets!</p>
<p>Vicki- Maybe not TOO much like us, however!</p>
<p>Kay- I think people have who written professionally have a much harder time- we were taught not to editorialize.  I would have a tough time going back again to professional writing!</p>
<p>Jonathan- poor Brady Coy.  He was sitting next to me during the cat discussion as I was getting agitated.</p>
<p>Kim-  Aren&#8217;t I much better than flat Ginger?</p>
<p>Bill- I enjoyed meeting you too.  I love being let out of the computer!</p>
<p>Matt- You nailed it- the personality is the differentiator because   there are thousands of other agents who offer the same basic service.  It is all about who we are, not what we are.</p>
<p>Jeff- I agree, some of the talking heads were really good, but the substance came outside the conference.</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph Ferrara.sellsius</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14849</link>
		<dc:creator>Joseph Ferrara.sellsius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 19:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What we put out, we attract.  Or is it opposites attract? Anyway, no matter how hard you try, you cannot keep your personality out of your writing.  It seeps through like Larry Y&#039;s humble charm ;)
While online relationships can span wider, offline relationships run deeper and stronger.  You can learn a lot about a person from reading their words but more from reading their face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What we put out, we attract.  Or is it opposites attract? Anyway, no matter how hard you try, you cannot keep your personality out of your writing.  It seeps through like Larry Y&#8217;s humble charm <img src='http://agbeat.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
While online relationships can span wider, offline relationships run deeper and stronger.  You can learn a lot about a person from reading their words but more from reading their face.</p>
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		<title>By: Nick Bostic</title>
		<link>http://agbeat.com/editorials/real-estate/are-online-relationships-fake/#comment-14828</link>
		<dc:creator>Nick Bostic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 17:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MWAHAHA!  You thought I was being genuine, didn&#039;t you! HAHA!!! (and Rudy must have been following you around too if you kept hearing “it is all about the relationships”)

Thank you for putting this incredible concept into words.  As a Gen Y&#039;er, I am constantly poked fun of by others and how my online relationships are fake and/or shallow.  So untrue and this last week definitely proved it.  It gets the &quot;and what do you do?&quot; introductions out of the way because we already know it from our discussions online.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MWAHAHA!  You thought I was being genuine, didn&#8217;t you! HAHA!!! (and Rudy must have been following you around too if you kept hearing “it is all about the relationships”)</p>
<p>Thank you for putting this incredible concept into words.  As a Gen Y&#8217;er, I am constantly poked fun of by others and how my online relationships are fake and/or shallow.  So untrue and this last week definitely proved it.  It gets the &#8220;and what do you do?&#8221; introductions out of the way because we already know it from our discussions online.</p>
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